fredag den 20. februar 2015

The whole person

Since the internet gave us a different way of accessing information, the moving trends have changed. Instead of ownership, for example, there is a tendency to prefer accessibility. I no longer need to own a car 365 days, if I only need it five months a year. I don't need to own an encyclopedia, to answer my questions: I go online, and within a few seconds (depending on writing speed), I have my answer.

Another change that has been more and more apparent in the later years is, the change from work to play. We no longer wish to posses a job that isn't fulfilling and fun. The days of going to work solemnly for the pay are over. If you do not enjoy at least some aspect of your job, you will always be on the lookout for something better. 

There is an urge in man to do better than yesterday, look better and BE better. We want to be better people, we want to present ourselves as 'the perfect version'. In the fifties your identity was your job; Don Draper was a Creative Director, his wife was a housewife (now called a home-maker, I believe). But the boxes we use to categorize ourselves with now, are no longer singular.

Our job is no longer our only identity, and employers tend to look on all aspects of a candidate's life, rather than just skills and experience. 
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, Ello - are all media providing us a chance to see into other peoples lives. Our profiles and online friends have become who we are, or more; how we want to be perceived. Ugly photos are deleted, leaving only the 'perfect' image left.

Some has tried to nib this in the bud, by closing their profile, to make sure no future employers can snoop around. But I argue that leaving your profile locked sends a signal of secrecy; and might even raise some red flags. The social media have become such an important part of our lives, everybody is expected to be online constantly, and a profile with absolutely no posts seems odd.

Me in my Hunger Games cosplay
Instead, you should choose what you share with the world. Leave some posts public, paint a picture of a whole person. Let them experience you as a person, make sure your personality shine through.

For me, it is my geeky side. Yes I am passionate about experience economy but a big part of my life, has to do with geek culture and cosplay. It seems to me that geek culture is more popular than ever, and I get to use my event knowhow and geekiness to make conventions. It is the epitome of the Kloutscore slogan: "Be known for what you love".

tirsdag den 17. februar 2015

Preaching respect

I feel like I have to say something. I do not want to be a part of this debate of right and wrong, but everybody else is stating something about the attack in Copenhagen. Some use what happened to further their political agenda, some preach hate against religion or foreigners - but the thing I hear most around my peers, are that you shouldn't judge a group, based on individuals actions.

What happened this weekend was a tragedy. Yet I am not surprised. It has been brewing in the corners of the world for the last fifteen years or so - and even little Denmark have been ready for 'an attack', you could almost say expecting it.
That doesn't make what happened right - nobody should be killed over their drawings, their religion, or their opinions. Anywhere in this world.

I do not want to focus on what happened - because that gives more power to the individual, a war and a cause I do not agree with, on any sides. Instead I focus on the coming together of so many people, how a memorial in numerous places was put into action very fast, how numerous people attended, and how most people are preaching love and respect.

Respect people around you - understand that difference is a good thing. You will always get the best solution to a problem, if you discuss it with someone who does not agree with you. But respect their opinions, and find common ground, instead of focusing on disagreements.

This post has got very little to do with business and acumen, but a lot to do with respect. I LOVE LIVING IN NØRREBRO. I love the multi ethnicity, how so many people live, and give room to each other. I love how I NEVER feel unsafe walking home at night, because I know that there are always someone who is awake. The only time I have ever been angry about living there, was when it was raining and the busses were crowded. Yes, at some point I will want to move to the countryside again, but I don't think anything compares to the feeling of belonging I get, living in Nørrebro, Copenhagen.